Don't try to Blend in!
Sometimes it’s good to blend in with the world, it makes you relatable. But it’s easy to get lost into the shadows of what your friends, family, and peers are doing; how they think, what they like, their style, and their dreams. Don’t let your originality fade in the backgrounds of their reality. There are times you have to stand out from the crowd. Never dim your light just to fit in.
Be different just how you were made, there’s nothing wrong with that. Rather you’re shy, loud, private, humorous, crazy, hardworking, talented, smart, strict, spiritual, or just like to stay to yourself, be you! There’s a reason why your not like others and see life much differently, its not by mistake.
I used to think that because I was different that maybe there was something wrong with me or maybe I was weird for looking at life differently than others. I don’t view life the way people view it, I think about helping people more than they helped me, or more than I helped myself. I am mannerable and country, and you can tell it a mile away! I’m not mean or nasty and I forgive people a lot when they betrayed me, but when they get on my last nerves, that’s when my bad side kicks in. I am totally different person that likes to fight back and want revenge! You may not like it but that’s the way I am. I’m different and I’m me!
I am super nice and have so much compassion for people and sometimes the world isn’t on that level. So, there were plenty of times that people would try to “run me over” and take advantage of me because they took my kindness for a weakness. They found out the hard way that I can be crazy at times, and I am stronger than I look. The crazy thing about it is I love when people try me, it lets me express my feelings and get all my anger out lol. It’s like therapy and stress relieving! That’s just me and that’s why I am different and unique, I’m sweet and crazy at the same time. A beautiful combination isn’t it! 😆
So, maybe you are unlike everyone else and considered “strange” because you don’t act or look just like the crowd, that’s a good thing.
If we all were meant to have the same thoughts, personalities, and looks then we would just be clones with no sense of life. Wouldn’t life be super boring? There would be no purpose, no change, just dullness, and we would be lost in a crowd.